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From: dodo <harun11@hotmeel.com> (mississauga, Canada) - Nov 11, 2003 |
| Question: What year Hijrah did the following companions of the prophet die?
a)Aisha bint as siddeeq
b)Ramlah bint abi Sufyan
c)Hafsa bint Umar
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| Answer: Dear Dodo, Ummul momeneen Aisha (RA) passed away 57year of Hijra.Ummul momeneen Hafsa binte Umar passed away 45 year of hijra in month of Sha'ban. |
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From: tahir <tahir.h.choudhary@stud.man.ac.uk> (cheshire, u.k) - Nov 18, 2003 |
| Question: Is there a hadith that says something along the lines of"helping a muslim attains the reward of 1000 nawafil" ?
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| Answer: Dear Tahir,Please tell me who narrated this Hadith.I tried my best but could not found. |
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From: TAHIR <tahir.h.chodhary@stud.man.ac.uk> (cheshire, uk) - Nov 24, 2003 |
| Question: Assalamu alaikum, Is there a particular hadith or a sunnat which commands muslims to visit the cemetry on the eid days?
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| Answer: Dear Tahir,I could not find any Hadith about this topic.People used to go to cemetry on this day.May be they gues it upon Juma.It is said by Holy Prophet The one who visit every friday his parents or one of them grave he will forgiven & he will be written a pious.(Mishkat) |
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From: Khurram Khan <alikhan_20@hotmail.com> (Scarbrough, Canada) - Dec 4, 2003 |
| Question: Dear Maulana,
Assalam-waliekum:
My mother told me she had dream that she's praying salaat and some person came who looked like a very pious person and he was wearing a white jubbah. he grab hold of her praying rug from the front and told her the qibla is a bit to the left and then he turned the rug left little bit.
And couple of days before that dream. She dreamed that one of her friends came to the house and looked around and told in your living room area there's a mazaar right beside where the sofa and chimneywall is.
Please interpret these dreams for us thank you,
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| Answer: Dear K Khan,Meaning of first dream If the direction of Qibla is same as showed in the dream that indicate s that your mum is on right path.For second dream Your mum should do Istikhara to know the reality which is said in the dream. |
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From: Jasmine <truangel87@hotmail.com> (orlando, U.S) - Oct 30, 2003 |
| Question: As Salamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu Sheikh Sahib
Firstly Ramadan Mubarak!
I was wondering if u could possibly interpret a dream for me that I've had .. I dreamt that iI was on a pier overlooking the beach watching people surf and once I looked infront of me I was on the end of the pier lookin at a huge tidal waveonce i see it itz forming into a wave and i look at thinking it's really beautiful and then i realize that itz coming to right on me but i dont move and im just excited instead i just grab hold onto the pier bar and let it crash down on me when its done im standing there ..soaking..but not hurt in any way and im happy and then i just walk away..
JazakAllah Khair for any help you can give me!
Allah hafiz
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| Answer: Dear jasmine, Meaning of this dream indicates some difficulties but they will not effect you.Allah will save you. |
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From: mohamed <qadimulhabib> (new york, usa) - Nov 24, 2003 |
| Question: hi brother i saw a dream
i saw 2 walis sitting with me and they both said
is hot inside so they two took off their kafni but me i didn't took it off my kafni because i didn't feel hot.
those two walis the fouth time that i see them.
what does it means.
shukran salaam
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| Answer: Dear Mohammad,According to Interpertation of your dream,you will follow the way of these two walis.May Allah guide us right path. |
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From: ghulam saddiq <sensitiveheart1984@hotmail.com> (karachi, pakistan) - Oct 15, 2003 |
| Question: AS SALAM O ALAIKUM
sir i was searching the names of hazrat shaikh abdul qadir al gilani (ra)i came across ur site i must say it is a very pleasing site some one had mentiones that there are more than 300 ismae pak of hazrat shaikh abdul qadir al jilani (ra)(just like the names of ALLAH AND HIS PROPHET MUHAMMAD PBUH)i had seen only about 150 ismae pak by surfing the site iam very sure i would not be dissoppointed
please sir
i will be waiting 4ur reply
thanking u
ghulam saddiq
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| Answer: Dear Ghulam saddiq,Hazoor Ghos Pak is true follower of Holy Prophet (Peace be upon Him)He is by feet upon the Prophet.As said"GHos Azam darmian-e- Aulia choo Muhammad Darmiyan-e- ambiya.So the name of Prophet are also name of Ghos Pakexcept Nabi & rasool. |
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From: Ibn AbuBaker <UmityMuhammad@aol.com> (Irrelavent, United States) - Oct 10, 2003 |
| Question: Asslam Wailakum. Ya Shiek. I have heard of a story and want to get your feeling on it. I am a unworthy follower of the Qadriya Thariqat and know the (indirectly) the keepers of the grave of Sheik Abdul Khader AL-Gilani Razialathalanhu. I am bringing this to your attention just to show that I am familiar with miracles of Islam. Neway I heard a story that a couple of years ago some type of inscident occured in Madina, so the people quickly left the mosque to calm down the situation and see what exactly happened. As the people left the Masjid-AL Nabawi, a boy started yelling "Rasuallah Salalahualaihiwasalim Hayathi,Rasuallah Salalahualaihiwasalim Hayathi, Rasuallah Salalahualaihiwasalim Hayathi." Of course this means Rasullallah Salalahu ALaihiwasalam is alive. SO neway when the people ran into the Holy Mosque the kid was lying their dead. COuld u plz tell me ur input on this story nd wheather or not u think i tmay have accord. I believe the story but at the same time am unsure, but just wanted a backup from a big SHeik like you.
Ma Salama wa Jaza kalla kul Khair
Assalam Wailalkum
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| Answer: Dear Abu Bakr,Yes It is our faith that Holy Prophet is alive in His grave,every Prophet is alive also.We also believe in death it will must come we have to ready for it.May Allah bless us. |
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From: Syed Sarwar Shah Jeelani <jeelani_ali@hotmail.com> (Thatta Sindh, Pakistan) - Oct 15, 2003 |
| Question: janab Assal-o-Alikum wa Rehmatullah
meri aap se sirf itni guzarish hai k mujhe Syedna Ghausul Azam sheikh Abdul Qadir Jeelani RA ka shijra jo Syedna Hazrat Abdullah Shah Ashabi (Makli Sharif Thatta wale) aur unke baad ki auladoon ka darkar brai meherbani meri is mushkal ko hal farma kar shukria ka moqa den aap ki nawazish hogi. wassalam app ka khair andesh aur duaoon ka talib,
Syed Sarwar Shah Jeelani
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| Answer: Dear syed sarwar,Please read "Tazkira Qadriya" on our website. |
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From: Suraiya <don't have one yet> (Boston, usa) - Sep 28, 2003 |
| Question: salams again
Please tell me the meaning of my dreams.
The first dream I saw was about a jinn and heard a lot of noise in my dream also.
in my second dream I saw that I was cursing and at the time I was cursing I had my maternal aunt in front of me! She was sitting in the same position as I last saw her in pakistan five years ago, and then I saw my eldest Mumaani's face and felt in my dream as if she was responsible for some ill that had befallen me and at that point I woke up.
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| Answer: Dear Surraiya,May Allah protect you from jellous person.Please read last two sura in morning & evening. |
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From: sister in islam <shamsun@juno.com> (windsor, usa) - Nov 3, 2003 |
| Question: Assalaamu Alaikum
I have a very serious problem but i would really appreciate it if it is not published and that my answer will be sent directly to me.pLease do keep my question in strict confidence.If you can give me the answer without publishng my question ,i will be grateful.
I have ben maaried 30yrs.My husband has a very bad temper and some vices too,we have one child who is married now.
I put up totally for the sake of my child with utmost patience,he never even helped to find a good husband for his daughter excepting finance the wedding.
10yrs ago,he started a business,then i found out that he was always on the phone with his partners wife in front of her husband,the couple used to send food for him while in the shop,even though i have sent food and my husband brings it back saying he was not hungry that he will eat it the next day,this was a muslim couple.I asked my husband directly ,he denied,so i confronted the husband of this lady and of course he reports that to his wife and she cries to my husband and ever since he has been taking revenge .He left the business 3 yrs after he started it due to this problem but he helped the other couple start somewhere.He applied for a job in the usa and we left 5 yrs ago,i confronted him ,saying that unless he treats me properly i will not come and he does not have to come and see me,he cried and said he would and i joined him.
I have to fight every month to get an allowance from him,i used to work previously ,now because we moved i have no income.He will not buy groceries until it is completlely dry.
He is very vindictive , he creates problems wilfully so we will argue and then either pushes me or throws my qurans all over the place.He is a person who goes for thabligh jamaat once in a while ,prays 5 times a day.
Also i found out he was taking somebody elses wife for classes which he was following in the previous country ,the husband knew about it but not me.I wouldnt have known ,but while i was sleeping oneday i heard him come back after classes ,also i heard him talking to someone in the computer room,it sounded like a womens voice and then as quickly i heard him go out again,I confronted him the next day,he said it was nobody,so i followed him next day and i saw him take her in the car to her home.nad she is a non muslim.
Over in our new country i find him coming late again.He never takes vacation or time off ,he goes for eid prayer and then to work.
This place is a remote area ,i do not hardly know anyone except the mosque crowd,he sometimes leaves me alone for the weekend and goes for jamaat.he is 60yrs old but very very strong and i am 56.We have not lived as husband and wife for 6yrs or so,i couldnt take the lies or deception.I know he keeps in contact with all these women.I get anonymous calls too.I have told him over and over again that he can have his own good life but to treat me with respect and to spend on me for my needs,but he cannot even do that.He feels everything he earns is entirely his and i should be grateful that i have a roof over my head.As long as i keep quiet and takes what he hardly gives me and do not interfere in his life then there is peace and quiet.He makes it a point to tell me to shut up in front of my son inlaw when he gets angry with me,or he will look for an audience to do so.Many of his vices i have not told a single soul,but i did recently to his sister as i could not suffer alone in silence ,this i did too after i heard that he had complained about me to the whole community about complete private matters which are totally irrelevant but is so saddening for me.At this age where am i to go ,my brothers and sisters are of no help to me ,they only spread the rumours to everyone about us, as my husband cleverly puts me down and gets their good side but Allah knows the whole truth.He is earning extremely well,but it is difficult to spend for me,even though he has health and dental insurance he refuses to pay my bill if i have to go to the doctors ,so i have to save from the 100 dollar allowance he gives me for my tablets and other needs.
I cant tell you in this month of Ramazan how i am sobbing my heart for Allah to hear me.The more my husband does wicked to me i find him only getting more richer and powerful.
Please help me with duas ,prayers whatever.Justice has to be served once in our lifetime.I know patience will be rewarded,but i am only human.
Thank you.i will be looking forward to a reply in this holy month but in the strictest confidence.
May Allah reward you
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| Answer: Dear Sister in Islam,May Allah give you Patience.Please read 2 rajat salah then read 11 time darood the read 7 times"Hasbi ullaho lailah illaho alaihi tawakkalto wa howa rabbul arshil azeem" after sunrise & maghrib. |
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From: siste in islam <shamsun@juno.com> (hartford, usa) - Nov 6, 2003 |
| Question: Assalaamu Alaikum
I would like some duas or necessary prayers for this problem.
Please reply in confidence without publishing my name or e=mail address,you could quote me as a muslim sister,thank you.
We gave our daughter in marraige with a good dowry,since the couple was leaving the country ,the inlaws wanted to live in the house which we had given our daughter ,it is in my daughters name.I was dead against it,but the others coaxed us to let them use it for sometime ,then i requested that the attached apt be left for our use,(that is us, parents of the girl).After we left the mother of our son in law had got permission from her son to make use of the apt for her social work,he did so without even asking my daughter,she really has no need for that part at all,her 4 sons and married daughter are occupying the house.We were patient for 4 yrs ,then my daughter asked for the house back as all of them are earning,even though there is no father they are all earning well.The mother in law is now refusing to leave. When i visited our country i had no place of my own to stay ,as when we built this house for our daughter we built an apt attached to it for us to live whenever we visited.I had to stay with my daughters in laws in one of the rooms and i had to walk 10 mts daily to my three sisters homes for meals.The son is not of any help,he is keeping silent about the whole issue,this is causing friction between husband and wife.We want to solve this amicably as possible to avoid problems for my daughter but getting out of the mothers hands looks like it is going to be a major major problem.We do not want our daughter to take any drastic actions either,even though she can as the house is in her name but the mother as well as all her children are not moving .They have a big property of their own which she is pretending to sell for the past 6 yrs.Please in the name of Almighty Allah help us,that they leave on their own without causing any animosity or problem to my daughter as well as my daughters husband to realise the wrong doing of his mother and help us to get the house back amicably.We would appreciate any duas or prayers for this to be solved .We pray we will hear from you soon.Thank you and salaams.
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| Answer: Dear sister,Please read 313 time Darood sharref after Isha. |
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From: Abdul gafur al-baweani <poonamus_tribe@hotmail.com> (perth, australia) - Oct 16, 2003 |
| Question: asalamualaikum ya sheikh
can you please give me some reference from the sunna and the quran regarding that you can ask for something through a saint by the permission of Allah. i just need this information because some scholars say its totally haram and its a practise used by the hypocrits.
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| Answer: Dear A Ghafur,Reference from Holy Quran verse 35 Al-Mayeda.A great scholar Shah wali ullah says "Waseela" means to get Bayat from a Murshid(Spiritual guide)(Al-qual ul Jameel).REf; from Hadith Bukhari narrated Abu Hurairah(RA)Allahs messenger saidAllah(SWT) said "I will declare war against him who shows hostility to a Wali(pious) of Mine.And the most beloved thing with which My slave comes nearer to Me is what I have enjoined upon him; and My slave keeps on coming closer to Me through performing nawafil till I love him,When I love him I become his hearing with which he hears,his seeing with which he sees,his hand with which he strikes,and if he asks (some thing) from Me,I give him,and if he asks My protection I protect him."Dont go behind their saying.It is enough for us. |
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From: mohammed imam uddin <miu_4u@yahoo.com> (hyderabad, india) - Oct 25, 2003 |
| Question: ASS-SALAMU ALAI KUM
MERE PEER i am YOUR adna mureed please guide me (MERE PEER KI INAYAT MERE SAATH HAI TO BUS HAI).
MERE PEER YOUR mureed can't be able to leave the habit of cigrette and can't be able to concentrate on his engineering studies and YOUR gulaam can't be able to follow YOUR guidelines which u have given me when i became your mureed when YOU came to hyderabad in my childhood.i conclude my letter with this:
"YAJEELANI SHAINILLAH,YAJEELANI SHAINILLAH;
HOON KYA KYA PAR TERA HOON,TERA HOON MAI TERA HOON;
TERA HOON BUS TERA HOON,TERA HOON MAI TERA HOON;
DEDE ABB MUJHKO PAANAH,
YAJEELANI SHAINILLAH,YAJEELANI SHAINILLAH.
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| Answer: Dear M Imam uddin,May Allah bless you 7 help you to leave all bad habits. |
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From: Maheen <()> (Mississauga, Canada) - Nov 2, 2003 |
| Question: Asalaumualaikum,
Mujhe khawab aya k main ek helicopter k upper bethi hun (under nahi) aur jaisay kuch report kar rahi hun (as if i am a reporter for tv or something) helicopter ghoom raha hai aur zameen say kaafi kareeb hai aur main ird gird k halata aur waqiyat note kar k report kar rahi hun.. itnay main meri nazar neechay parti hay tu main dekhti hun k main Khana e kaaba k upper hun aur neechay hazaron log sajday kar rahay hain. main sochti hun mera libaas tu appropriate hai ( i was wearing abaya) tu kyun na main chalang laga kar neechay utar jaun... aur kuch ibadat main bhi kar lun.. bus isi khayal k atay hi main jump kar deti hun aur seedhi sajday main girti hun....
Ek aur khawab mujhe 5 6 months pehlay aya tha woh yeh tha main apnay ek kamray k beech main kiyari banati hun aur wahan kuch seeds dalti hun.. meri behen saath khari hai usay kehti hun k tum dekhna Allah (SWT) nay wada kya hai mujhe Allah par pura yaqeen hai.. phir main dosray kamray main ja kar apnay sab ghar walon ko bulati hun k jaldi ao mera darakht araha hay Allah (SWT) nay wada kya hay.. sab soch rahay hain k yeh larki pagal ho gaye hai.. sab kamray main dakhil hotay hain tu dekhtay hi dekhtay zameen shaq hoti hai aur ek intehayee mazboot darakht nikalna shuru hota hay .. itna bara hota jata yahan tak k chat phaar kar nikal jata hay.. aur phir us main say khoob laaal laaal apples girnay lagtay hain.. aur main khush hoon.. be inteha khusi say ghar walon ko keh rahi hun dekha main nahi kehti thi mujhe Allah par yaqeen tha.. ALllah (SWT) nay mujhe say wada kya tha aur kaha tha k hum tumhey woh cheez de rahay hain jis ka hum nay Moosa (PBUH) say wada kya tha.
Plz tell me meanings for these 2 dreams.. I will be greatful.
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| Answer: Dear Maheen, May Allah bless you.
1.Dream is good .Reading salah in Ka'ba is a sign of peace.May Allah bestow you visit of Holy Ka'ba.
2.Dream.Apple tree is not a good in the dream. |
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From: Sayed Mir Afsar Moshwani <lucky0333@hotmail.com> (Karachi, Pakistan) - Oct 9, 2003 |
| Question: Aasalamo Elikum
Thanks for your reply. Please can you give me the reference book name/auther and publisher in which I found downward from Musa Kazim (RA) as you quote me belown
"Answer: Dear brother,sorry for delay,Imam Musa Kazim(RA)is a son of syedana Imam jafar(RA) & grand son of Imam Baqar(RA) who is son of Imam Zain-ul-Aabideen(RA).Imam Musa Kazim is father of Imam Ali raza(RA). "
Wasalam
Sayed Mir Afsar Moshwani
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| Answer: Dear Sayed,The book name is "Mazhar-e-Jamal-e-Mustafai"by Syed Naseer uddin Hashmi. |
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From: Samira Sayyed AbbasAli <sssamira@hotmail.com> (Pune, India) - Nov 9, 2003 |
| Question: Respected Sir, Assalamalaikum,
I, have a niece who was born on 25th August 2001. We have named her as Mahshameen and with love we call her Myesha. I would be very grateful if you could tell me the meaning of both the names and their characteristics. jazakallah
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| Answer: Dear Samira sayyad,Congratulation for this new one.May Allah bless her.Meaning of this name " Like moon in beauty" |
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From: Rubab <Rubi75@msn.com> (Toronto, Canada) - Oct 9, 2003 |
| Question: Salaams Sheikh Sahab. I have a request for you to tell me the meaning of this dream i had. Last night i saw in my dream that i am pregnant and i even found that i am going to have a daughter. Also in the same dream i saw different types of food. And my husband and me were eating rice in the dream. I dont know what this dream was about. Please tell me the translation of this dream. I will be very thankful to you. May Allah Pak give you all the happiness.
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| Answer: Dear Rubab,Sorry for delay,That is a good dream.You will get wealth very soon & good things will come to you InshAllah. |
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From: A muslima <oiuyt@hotmail.com> (boston, usa) - Oct 1, 2003 |
| Question: salam shaikh
i have a question, i think I am possessed because i am 33 years old and cannot get married. whatever I happen to utter comes out true, any bad thing that is. I once said that so and so is not good looking and then my face changed!!! I once said so and so hasn't got nice hair while on the phone to someone and next thing I know my hair became horrible, next i mentioned that I that someone didn't have thick hair, my hair started to fall. All of these comments were made in innocense not meaning any malice neither were they made infront of the said people. once I menitioned that people who study computer science earn a lot and next thing I know i was dropped from that subject and the secretary wouldnt' even let me enter the building without abusing me! All of the above mentioned things happened when I was talking to my sister.
Next I mentioned to someone on the internet that "i think i am possesed (because I sometimes talk to myself unintentionally and this condition has started since 1987 when I visited some relatives who are notorious for black magic)" and that person asked me if i heard any voices and i said "no". Well guess what, I would hear a whisper violently in my ear while i was sleeping just before fajr. i changed houses and still it happened so i started reading surah fatiha, ayatul kursi and the last 3 surahs at night and now it has stopped. But i still talk to myself like i have done since 1987. I did an istikhara and found myself possesed by the evil ones.what should i do? someone needs to perform exorcism.
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From: Saira <- ----> (New York, America) - Nov 17, 2003 |
| Question: Aslamualikunm Sheikh sahab. My request is that i am having so many problems at home. I feel like my head will blast sometime with tention. I got married last year and i did'nt see one day of happiness. I dont know what is happening at our home. My mother in law is sick for some reason and she is blaming it on me for the whole time. MY ALLah knows the truth. I have tried to tell her and tried to get closer to her but she would'nt listen. THis way my husband is in double tention. We fight a lot.He keeps telling me to go to my parents house because his mom is sick and then he comes after some days to pick me up. His family is having problems with my parents. No one is in a normal situation. I have noticed that my husband is loosing respect for my family and me.I dont believe in the magic stuff but now i am forced to think about it.My husband and i think that we should move out. He plans that and the next day he changes his mind. Is there any type of wazeefa for it. My life is so misreble. Is it possible for someone to such things like magic to break someone's house. Please tell me some solution that will make Allah forgive us and give us peace. May Allah bless you and give you all the happiness.
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| Answer: Dear Saira,Please read "Istighfar " 70 times after Isha.100 times Darood.everyday.May Allah bless you & your family. |
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From: sara <..> (delware, u.s.a) - Nov 12, 2003 |
| Question: as salam walikum
mullana saheb i have a problem here. actually its kind of a long story, but let me make it short for your convience. i have a muslim friend, but her promblem is that she thinks too much about boys. unfortunetly she has many boyfriends, and every time she has a new boyfriend she dumps the old one. she did this to about 3 or 4 guys, and whenever she leaves a guy she is very upset and then she discusses this matter with me, and she also tell all this to a non-muslim friend. and that non muslim friend suggests her what to do and what not to do. couple of days ago my friend had some problem with her current boyfriend and she was very upset and was in tears. then she told everything to this non muslim friend, and this non muslim friend told her not to meet, see or talk to this guy again. and my friend agreed on it. but few days later this non muslim friend asked me if my friend is again with her boyfriend(the same guy), i asked her how did she know about it, she told me that she can see my friend happy again, and she knew that she always does that meaning (she is happy once again if she is with the same boy). here's my problem, i told to this non muslim women that yes she is back with that same guy again, i knew taht b'cos my sister told me that my friend was walking with her boyfriend, and my sister have seen her. so i knew that she was back with taht guy, and so i told this non muslim women what i knew (which was not a lie). but after telling her that i realized that what i did was wrong, there is a hadees in which our prophet (pbuh) tells us that " try to cover up the faults of a believer." this means dont ever try to show the bad habits of a muslim, right. but by mistake i did that. i asked pardon from allah tala, did tauba, and promised that inshaallah i will not repeat this mistake again (atleast not wantedly). i am sorry i think i am wasting your precious time, but believe me i really need some help here. ok,so then i told to my friend what my sister saw, and then she (my friend) was all upset, she told me to say to my sister that the guy she was walking with was none but his cousin. i told her that i will tell that to my sis, but i did not b'cos i knew she will know that i am lieing, anyways. then the next day my friend asked me if talked to my sis and then i lied to her and said oh yes i talked to her, and said that my sis belived me (this was my lie). now here what happed the non muslim women is mad at my friend b'cos she is back with taht guy again and this non muslim friend is not talking to her in proper manner. i do not liked this behaivoir of her towards my friend, b'cos no matter how much right this non muslim women is, she is still a disbeliever, and i will never tolarate that this non muslim is treating a muslim women this way. so what i thought of doing is to tell another lie to this non muslim friend that my friend has now changed completely, she is talking to this guy but only school related talks (this will be my lie). so as to change the behavior of this non muslim women's attitude towards my believing friend. and then i will tell my friend to change her life style, and to be more religious. i have told this to her many times before but i dont see any improvements in her, magar i am still trying to change her behavior, inshaallah allah meri madat karege. aap mujhe itna bataye ki main yeh joohte boldo na us non muslim women se, ise meri dost ki izat baj jayegi, aur mujhe meri galti karna ka gham kam ho jayega. main aap ke jawad ka intezaar kar rahi hoon. main janti hon ki aap yeh sab sunn ke bore hu gaye honge. magar agar aap meko is masle ka haal batadege to allah ap ko neki dedege. plz answer this question, i will be really thankful to allah first and then to you. mujhe maaf kardo aap ko bhute takleef de rahi hoon. jazar allah wa kariro razikhin
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| Answer: Dear Sara,Thanks for detail question.Please If you want to bring change her first change yourself. |
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From: Maria ALmas <mani_maria@yahoo.com> (karachi, pakistan) - Nov 16, 2003 |
| Question: Respected Sir
aaslam-o-alikum
sir i have very serious problem and i hope u will certainly help me,,,last 2 saal seee raat ko jab mein soteyy hoon mukammal nneend mein nahein hoteyy tooo koi bhareyy bojh mujhkoo perr sawar hota haii meinnn appna poora zoor lagga detey hoon kee ussko hataoon magr wohh nahein hatta haii phiir bohatt mushkil see awazz nikalneyy kee koshsih kerteyy hoon aurr jab takk koi mujhkoo hilata nahein haii bojh nahein hatta,.,.,.week mein 1 ya 2 baar hojata haii essa.,,. kabhi kabhi roz bhi hota haiii ,.,. abb mere pareshanii berhteyy hee jaraheyy haii kee akhirr yehh kiya karoon,.,.,.pls help me.,,.
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| Answer: Dear Maria,Please contact to a psycotist.Read 500 time "Ya Shaikh Abdul Qadir Shaian lillah" 11 time darood in both sides. |
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From: syed ziauddin <ziasy@yahoo.com> (scarborough, canada) - Nov 9, 2003 |
| Question: assalam u alaikum
Ramazaan mubarak to all of you.
my problem is i am out of job over two years and when i have to call companies for some job i feel like I am scared
only while making call. In my normal life every thing is ok.
when I apply for job I dont get any interview also.
please let me know what to do in correct way.
I recite so many thing, but I dont know whether I am reading it correctly or not.And i don't feel like stopping any of the recitation .
your early responce is highly appriciated and jaza kallah.
khuda hafiz.
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| Answer: Dear Syed Zia,Please read"Ya Kafi antal kafi" 11 times after every prayer 3 times darood in the begining & end. |
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From: Khurram Khan <alikhan_20@hotmail.com> (Scarborough, Canada) - Nov 15, 2003 |
| Question: Dear Sheikh,
Assalam-waliekum:
Thank you for your interpretation but the only group that I know is Tablighi Jamaat. And personally I use to be among them and I learn a great deal from them but at the end. I got tired and left they expected me to give lot of time in work of Dawa. If you say that's the jamaat the dream is indicating and I should join it.Then I will join it but I need to know maulana please reply.
Jazakallah,
Khurram Khan
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| Answer: Dear K khan,Please jion a Jama't of Ahle Zikr which is Minhaj ul Quran. |
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From: Ayesha <paki_pryde@yahoo.ca> (Toronto, Canada) - Dec 7, 2003 |
| Question: Asalamualaikum,
I am very worried sir.. And I hope you can help by the will of Allah(SWT.
sometime ago I met a man and I fell in love wid him. It was the first time i had this type of feelings for anyone and the feelings were so strong that i could'nt help. Each and every action of mine made it so obvious that I can just do anything for him. The only problem being, he is engaged. he is not officially engaged, he just likes the girl but girls family is not really interested and he is still waiting for the girl.
At one point he actually decided to marry me 2.
but things did not turn out that well.. and i dont know wat happen dat he never talked abt that again.
I love him so much that i can't think of my life without him..
i need some wazeefa to make him love me.. he accepts dat i love him a lot.. he knows we have understanding.. but
I want things to work for me.. I want to marry him and i want him 2 love me as i love him.
Plz help me..
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| Answer: Dear Ayesha,May Allah bless you & bestow you true love.Please read"Ya Hadi antal Hadi"11 time after every salah 3 time darood. |
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From: Suraiya <don't have one yet> (Boston, USA) - Sep 28, 2003 |
| Question: salams Shaikh
I have been in difficulty for the last five years, I keep changing houses rapidly, my parents and siblings act like prophet Yusuf Alahis salam's siblings! They feel animosity towards me for no reason what so ever, and so do the people around me, and my siblings encourage the people around me to be more hostile!!! this started when I visited some relatives in Pakistan and they are knows for their black magic to separate families (they have ruined many people's lives) and sending jinns via the person's belongings (such as clothes or hair or any thing that has had the victim' sweat on it) to stop people from getting married. some people have said this could be due to divine test, could you tell me what to read, I am unble to get married even so that I could start my own life.
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| Answer: Dear Sister,May Allah bless you & solve your all problems.Please "Ya Shaikh Abdul qadir Shaian lillah"300 time after isha 11 time darood in begining &end. |
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From: mir vazeer ali khan <kohinoorwebworld@yahoo.co.in> (hyderabad , india ) - Nov 8, 2003 |
| Question: assalam alykum
i am minhaj from hyderabad age 25, i have lost my parents in my child hood itself. since from my child hood i am taking care of all my family. i am having lonly sister i am under the guardianship of my aunty (phupi)
who resides in england. Due to the Family Crisis I have started my own business under the guarandianship of my elders who in turn they only spoils my life (uncle). Then also i am struggling n struggling for the sake of my family. Now i am not in a condition to bear n more. I am haivng my own business of cybercafe, previously the business was too good but now slowly its going down n down.. completely out. Plz i am really worry about the situations n i am not in a position to spend n more..coz i have taken the money from finance n due to business is slow i cant return back the money.. know i am in a position to return back... and if i sale all my businees then also i cant make it return to all of them. Plz kindly suggest me wht to do, anything else like to read or etc.,, plz kindly help me out of this condition.... n save me from this routine.. kindly help me out from this situations n suggest me what to do?
Thanking you
Allah hafiz
M V A khan.
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| Answer: Dear Mir v ali,Please read 5 daily prayer.Read "Ya wahhabu"100 time behind every prayer 11 time Darood. |
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From: muhammad khan <soul_heart26@hotmail.com> (peshawar, pakistan) - Nov 4, 2003 |
| Question: DEAR SIR,
I WAS READING THAT BEFORE DOING ANY WAZIFA, YOU MUST FIRST GET PERMISSION FROM ANY SHAIKH( SUFI).
OTHER THING I READ IN "HUSSAN HUSSAIN"( by imam muhammad bin muhammad jazri )
WAS THAT PROPHET( PBUH) ADVISED HAZRAT ALI TO DO FOLLOWING WAZIFA TO HAVE GOOD MEMORY, WHEN ALI TOLD PROPHET( PBUH) THAT HE CANT MEMORIZE HOLY QURAN. PROPHET ALSO SAID THAT THIS PRAYER OF " MOMIN " ( MUSLIM) NEVER FAILS. PROPHET ( PBUH) ALSO SAID THAT TO ANY ONE YOU TOLD ( DOES IT MEAN PERMISSION ???) THIS PRAYER, HE WILL SUCCEED.
PRAYER ( WAZIFA): 4 RAKAT SALAT IN NIGHT OF FRIDAY ( FOR 3--5--7 FRIDAY NIGHTS) SUCH THAT IN 1ST RAKAT AFTER FATIHA , READ SURA YASEEN
2ND RAKAT,,.... SURA DUKHAN
3............... SAJDA
4..... AL-MAILK.
AFTER THAT PRAISE ALLAH, DAROOD AND ASTAGHFAR FOR ALL MOMINEEN.THEN IS A LONG PRAYER .( DUA ).
ADDULLAH IBN ABBAS SAID THAT AFTER 5--7 THURSDAYS, HAZRAT ALI CAME BACK SAYING TO PROPHET THAT I CAN NOW EASILY MEMORIZE QURAN AND HADITHS.
ON THIS PROPHET ( PBUH) SAID " INDEED ALI IS MOMIN".( note prophet( pbuh ) didnt said muslim, he said momin.)
NOTE : THIS HADITH IS IN TIRMIZI.
QUESTIONS:
1) DO I NEED PERMISSION OF ANY ONE TO GET BETTER RESULTS FROM THIS WAZIFA.
2) CAN I SUCEED IN IT WTH OUT ANY ONE PERMISSION.
3) IS IT LIKE THAT AS I AM A "MUSLIM" NOT A "MOMIN", SO FOR THIS REASON I WILL NEVER SUCCEED IN IT.?
REQUESTS:
IF I CAN SUCCEED IN THIS WAZIFA , KINDLY PROVIDE ME PERMISSION TO DO THIS WAZIFA.
dear scholar,
AS I HAVE STARTED THIS WAZIFA SINCE 3RD WEEKS BACK AND WILL CONTINUE FOR FURTHER 4 WEEKS MORE,( DUE TO ABSENCE OF PERMISSION I AM WORRIED IT WILL NOT WORK, SO I NEED SOMEONE KIND ENOUGH TO HELP ME) ONE THING I MUST TELL YOU THAT I HAVENT MEMORIZE THESE SURATS .. YASEEN, DUKHAN, SAJDAH, AL-MALIK SO I KEEP A BOOK OPEN CLOSE TO ME DURING PRAYER AND READ FROM IT,, DOES THIS WILL WORK? IS THERE ANY WRONG IN IT??
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| Answer: Dear Muhammad Khan,Please continue this wazifa you are permitted.You are not allow to look at book during salat.May Allah bless you. |
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From: may <babyangel120386@netscape.net> (wilmington, usa) - Oct 21, 2003 |
| Question: assalam u alaykum,
i am here to ask you a question about prayer!!! ok.
is it haram or will my prayer count if i need to use the bathroom when i am praying a prayer??? also,when holding a fart when you are praying but you dont fart will it count???
thank you
wa alaykum wa salaam
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| Answer: Dear May,It is good to read prayer after using washroom.You are not allow to read prayer when you need to go to washroom. |
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From: saba farooq <platinum_beauty2@hotmail.com> (lahore, pakistan) - Nov 11, 2003 |
| Question: Assalamoalaikum!
Meray ap se 2 sawal hain..ek to yeh ke agar koi aurat educated hai...kisi profession se taluq rekhti hai...aur insaniyat ki khidmat kerna chati hai..shaadi shuda ho..kya agar us ka shohar use us kaam se mana kare to use ruk jana chaiyay...
dosra sawal yeh ke aaj kal intenet per log galat baaton ke shikar hain..aur apni zaat se aur logon ko nuqsaan pohancha rahe hain..har koi khas ker ke teenagers in baaton mai involved hain..aap itna bata den pehley to kya yeh sahi hai jo log chat wagaira kertay hain..aisay logon ke baarey mai koi saza hai...kyun ke aap khud hi dekhen bohat se log galat tasur le rahe hain..is ke baarey mai Ap kya kahen ge.main idea yeh ke doosron ki baaton se agar takleef ho to insaan ko kya kerna chaiyay..bashar ke liyay assan to nahi hai..sehna..namazen sab kuch perthnay ke bawajood logon ki baaten sahi nahi jatin..kaisay in baaton se bacha jayay...kyun ke mai khud hadsay se guzri hoon.bachpan mai jal gayi thi..aur yaqen karen loog galat baaten kertay hain..aisay logon ke baarey mai koi saza hai.
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| Answer: Dear Saba,If a husband stop her wife to do that job.She must follow her husband.Those they do bad talk they are hypocrite.They have to look their behaiver. |
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From: Talha <Talhazu129@hotmail.com> (Mississauga, Canada) - Nov 13, 2003 |
| Question: Assalamualaikum
How are you? Ive got my questions for the Ramadan Contest
1. The prophet (s.a.w) said to his wives before his death:"
The one who has the longest arm amoung you will be the first to join me."
a)Who was that whom the prophet (s.a.w) mantioned in the Hadith?
b)What year of higrah did that person die?
c)What did the prophet (s.a.w) mean by " THe longest arm?
2. What year Higrah did the following companions of the Prophet die?
a)Aisha Bint As Sideeq
b)Ramlah Bint Sufyan
c)Hafsa Bint Umar
3. What year of hajj made obligatory?Who was the first person to lead Muslims after it was made obligatory?
4. He participated in the battle of Mu'tah against the Romans.The prophet (s.a.w) ordered that he should be in Command if the Commander Zayd bin Harithah were slain.
Who is this person?
Jazakallah. I have to hand this in till friday.
Wassalamualaikum.
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| Answer: Dear Talha,Syeda Zainab(RA) 21th year of Hijra.Prophet mean generousty.2.Hadrat Aisha passed away57 year of Hijra 3.Hajj was obligatory in 9th of Hijra,Hadrat Abu bakr was lead first time. |
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From: Abdul Raheem <azmailz@yahoo.com> (hyderabad, india) - Oct 31, 2003 |
| Question: Salaam alai kum,
I am facing a peculiar problem, as when ever i sit and start some wazeefa i get lots of jamai and that disturbs me in me doing the wazeefa, and i am facing a big financial problem. I have taken money on intrest as it became unavoidable and i couldnt get help from any near and dear ones i had to take a loan on intrest my salary is less and am unable to afford even the intrest per month. Sir i would like me to show a way out so that i can repay my loan and be free as soon as possible inshallah....
i am a mureed in qadriah silsila, and my peer expired 6 years back...
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| Answer: Dear A Raheem,May Allah bless you & solve your problems.Please read 100 times "Ya HALALl MUSHKILA't"daily after isha 11 times darood pak. |
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From: Soegiarto <jksgt@hmm.co.id> (surabaya, indonesia) - Nov 7, 2003 |
| Question: Dear Sirs,
We would like to know and advised, we do need your permission to print out the Photograph of Sheihk Tahir Alauddin and the Sajaratul silsilah qodriah from this site.
did you allow if we print out the photograph and the sajaratul silsilah al Qodriah ? if so thank a lot may god bless you and me
thanks
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| Answer: Dear Soegiarto,Yes you are allowed. |
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From: umer <umer_20@yahoo.com> (surat, India) - Oct 28, 2003 |
| Question: sallamu alaikum v.v. hazraat shaikh i'm asking you first time. mera computer ka business hey or 1 mere client ne mere saath dokha(frod) kya hey jo muslim nahi hey or baadme mere upper court me case ker diya he ki mene uske saath dokha kya hey. muje frod client ke paas bahot sare rupees lene jey or mere dusre clients ko dena hey abhi uske liye court me mera case chaal raha hey or usme kaafi repees kharch ho gaye hey jisme kafi rupees lawyer or judge ko diye hey lekin abhi mere pass repees nahi hey or rupees judge ko dena hey mere pass koi rasta nahi hey. yeh situation me muje kya karna chaiye ? agar me rupees manage kar ke deta hu to vo jutha case jo mere saamne hey vo mere favour me order ho sakta hey and kuch or repees police ko bhi dena padta hey ki vo log frod parti ko court me hazir kare. muje yeh puchna hey ki yeh sare log (police,lawyer and judge)ko mey dusre rupees jese ki (jakaat, intrace ka paisa(biyaaz ka paisa) de sakta hu ya nahi )?? wassallam waiting 4 ur quick reply .
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| Answer: Dear Umer,May Allah bless you.If it is your zakat then you are not allow to give them. |
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From: SOEGIARTO <jksgt@hmm.co.id> (Surabaya, Indonesia) - Nov 4, 2003 |
| Question: AssalamuAlaikum,
We are follower of islam sunni with the Nahdhatul Ulama Organization which familiar with NU so many people in NU as Shekh Abdul Qodir RA follower in Qodiriah Tarekat, regarding Qodiriah tarekat we have some query about it asf :
1. can the baiat takeplace from long distance (from Pakistan to Surabaya Indonesia?)
2. when & where the baiat will be held ?
3. PLz kindly be advised to get scholarship at your college ?
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| Answer: Dear Soegiarto,Thanks for visiting this site.1 Yes Bayat takeplace from distance through telephone,Internet&etc.2 when you write or phone then Bayat will be done.3.Please visit www.minhaj.org |
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From: syed <nizam67@hotmail.com> (Karachi, Pakistan) - Oct 24, 2003 |
| Question: I know of a person who would suddenly space out, then start licking his lips. His left hand starts making some picking movements and the right arm appears stiff. This lasts for approximately 30-40 seconds. He then appears very confused for 10-20 minutes and then resumes his normal activities.This occurs several times a month. Doctors say its anxiety. An aamil says "jinn charh gia hey". Is this acceptable from islamic point of view? What can be done? JazaakAllah alal khair.
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| Answer: Dear Syed Please continue the treatment by Doctors.Keep wudu everytime,read 5 daily prayers. |
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From: Mouzam <m_mouzam@yahoo.com> (Hyderabad, India) - Nov 8, 2003 |
| Question: Salaamalikum!
I am mouzam from Hyderabad i have completed my Masters in Computer in 2001. Since from last two years i am in try for Abroad, but unable to get succeed to get the visa . My mind is absant unable to dedice wht to do n wht not.
Plz kindly suggest me wht to do.
Thanking you
Allah hafiz.
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| Answer: Dear Mouzam,Every thing which is happened in the past,that is destiny.We are commanded to do fulfil our duties & leave the result to Allah.No way to deprive,do hard get the result.You should try to do work in your country,It is better for you now when get a visa for abroad then avail it. |
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From: aleem <ayman_rules@hotmail.com> (tampere, Finland) - Nov 9, 2003 |
| Question: Asalam Alaikum respected scholar,
There are some lists around that I have heard of, that contain a list of emulsifiers,chemical agents etc, that if present in a food product make that product Haram. Mostly I have heard about E471 as something to avoid. I understand there are many others..
The problem is that these chemicals are found in most of the food products available in market.
Does the presence of these chemicals really make the food product/or any other product haram? Someone told me that these chemicals are not necessarily haram,,as they may or may not contain animal fat. What is the criteria we should follow?
Lastly could you please let us know of the list of chemicals,emulsifier etc that we should avoid?
Thanks wasalam.
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| Answer: Dear Aleem,It is easy to contact in your country religious organisation or you can contact direct to manufactures they will explain you about the ingreadence. |
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From: Qais In Need <-> (Hyderabad, India) - Nov 11, 2003 |
| Question: salaamualaikum scholar saab,
i earlier droped a question here,like a week ago and it didnt got answered...its okay i will ask again :), i just want to know if the left eye brow pharakthi hai for some reason,is it considerd to be a bad omen? should i be concerned at all? and i sometimes dont feel like studying and doing my school work...its not like i dont enjoy, i do enjoy it..but when it comes to school work i juss delay it to the last moment...well i think i am not being deciplined but do have some suggestions please...thanking you kindly...jazakallah
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| Answer: Dear brother,It is a medical reason not a religious.Please make your schedule everyday & try to follow it InshAllah .Read "Rabbi zidni Ilma" 11 times daily. |
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From: kamran jalil <kamranjalil9@hotmail.com> (karachi, pakistan) - Nov 13, 2003 |
| Question: ASSALAM-O-ALAIKUM
JANAB MAY AIK AKAILA LARKA HOON MAIREE AGE 33 HAY AUR MAY SHADI KARNA CHAHTA HOON LAIKIN GHARDAMAD WALI MAIRA APNA GHAR HAY BUS JOB NAHI HAY ABHI KOI MUJHAY SHADI K LIAN SIRF GHARDAMAD WALI LARKI SAY HI SHADI KARNI HAY MAIRAY AAGAY PEECHAY KOI NAHI HAY MAIRAY FATHER AUR MOTHER KA DEATH HO GAI HAY AUR BROTHER AUR SISTER TO HAY HI NAHI KOI RELATIVE BHI NAHI HAY IS LIAN MUJHAY KOI AISEE TARKEEB BATAIN K MAI GHARDAMAD BUNJAOON PLEASE SIR YEA AIK YATEEM KA MASLA HAY ANSWER ZAROOR DIA GA ...
IM WAITING FOR UR ANSWER THANKS FOR KAMRAN JALIL.
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| Answer: Dear Kamran,Please contact to Muslim in your street or masjid,make friendship then tell them your desire.Read 5 times daily prayer.May Allah solve your problems. |
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From: Celine <Celini_rolex@hotmail.com> (Gloucester, England) - Nov 13, 2003 |
| Question: I am not a muslim, but i am interested in your religion, i would appreciate it if i could have your oppinion on the following:
1. why is the Mu'adhin so important and explain its importance to muslims.
2. Why is it important to have set times and routines for prayer?
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| Answer: Dear Celine,Thanks for visiting our web.Mu'adhin(Promises)are the base of our religion,because if someone does not fulfil promises he/she is not reliable.It is said by Prophet Muhammad(Peace & blessing upon Him)Those they dont fulfill promise they have no religion.
2.It is a command of God(Allah)to perform prayer at prescribe time.It make us punctual in life.it is also teaches us desciplane. |
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From: Asif <afh_asif@hotmail.com> (Rawalpindi, Pakistan) - Oct 23, 2003 |
| Question: Salam-0-Alaikum: janab mufti sahab kal may nay aik khwab daikha us khwab nay mughay bohat baychan kia hay.may nay khwab may yeh daikha kay aik malang type ka admee hay ganda sa. samnay baith kar wo paishab karrah hay . phir pata nahee kia hota hay kay wo mughay kehta hay kay tum sour(pig) ho mughay ghusa charta hay may us ko gardans say pakar ker uthaker phainkta ho khwab itna hi hay daikha may nay maghrib kay time per tah sham 5:00 bajay or 6:30 kay darmiyan. meray liay sab say pershankun bat yeh kay us nay mughay sour hi kue kah . kuch bihee keh daita us napak janwar say kue milaya plz mughay is khawab ki tabeer zaroor battaiya ga
Asif
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| Answer: Dear Asif,Please read salah & eat halal.May Allah bless us. |
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From: saba <platinum_beauty2@hotmail.com> (lahore, pakistan) - Nov 17, 2003 |
| Question: A.o.m
Imam saheb bohat shukriya aap ne meri mail ka jawab diya..agar mai mazeed sawalat kerna chahon to ker sakti hoon?
1)Ek baath jo mujhe satati hai..yeh hai Islam mai parda kiss tarah hain...Imam saheb umrah-o-haj ke doran aurat apna mon to nahi chupati..mai ne mon chupana shuru kiya tha..per Aap yaqeen karen badniyat log phir bhi apni ankhon ko gunahgar kertay hain..Aap yeh batayan ke parda Islam mai kis had tak hai.?Aur akhir jo aurat ya larki parda kare uss per bhi Awazen kassi jati hain??
2) Aur yeh ke log tasweeren khichwatay hain..Aurten , larkiyan sab is ke baarey mai kya hai?.
3)Aur iss zamanay ke lihaz se agar taqreebat mai saada jao to log , rishtedar kehtay hain ke yeh zada he islami hain..baten kertay hain....to makeup ker ke jati hain..Ap yeh batayan ke kya yeh sab sahi hai..Agar mard aurat ka taqreeb mai parda ho to aurat makeup ker sakti hai..Aur nahi to us per kitna gunah hai.
4) Imam saheb ek baath aur hai baher ke mumalik America wagaira..woh log iss tarah se aurat ko nahi dekhtay..belkey un ki aorten pakbaaz bhi nahi hotin..magar hamaray mashray mai khas ker Musalmano mai aisa kyun hai..kahin baher jao kharidari ke liyay to badtameezi hoti hai aurton ke saath..akhir aisa kyun hai? hum musalmano mai..kya hamaray mard hazrat apni baho betiyun ko hi bahobeti samjhtay hain dosre ki ko nahi samjhtay..Aisay mard hazrat ke barey mai kya hai..jo shareef aur parde dar aurton ko bhi pareshan karen..aur bemaqsad aurton ki kharidari wali jaghon mai taak jhaak karen??
5}Imam saheb ghar mai tasweeren yahni sceneries wagaira rekhna..aur janwar agar khutta paal liya jayay..to suna hai rehmat ke farishtay nahi atay..lekin anjannay mai bachpan mai chota bacha paala tha zid se..walden ne mana bhi farmaya tha..iss per kya kahen ge?
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| Answer: Dear Saba,There are two ways of Parda(Hijab)1.Farz.To cover from head to toe except face,hands &feet.2.Mustahab(Recommendatry)To cover face if there is no moral values in society.
There is also Parda for males,they must gaze their eyes.May Allah guide us.
2.About Picture,if it is necessary it is ok or if it will keep for memorial.
3.If there is separate arrangement for women they can makeup according to Sharia.4.Those they tease the pious women Allah curse upon them.5.You can keep Sceenries at home.6.Ask forgiveness from Allah(SWT). |
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From: Sarah <sarah_dil_786@hotmail.com> (Amsterdam, The Netherlands) - Nov 20, 2003 |
| Question: Asselaam Alaikoem w.r.w.b. Dear Imam Sahib. I wrote before about some missing ayat in the romanised version of Quran-Shareef. I found another fault. 107. Surah Al Maun... ayat 5 is missing in the romanised version. Can You please request the webmaaster to add the missing ayat? Thanks a lot. Allah Hafiz.
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| Answer: Dear sister,Thanks for correction.InshAllah we will correct it. |
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From: Syed Shakeel Ur Rahman <sdshakeelur@hotmail.com> (Ruston, USA) - Nov 21, 2003 |
| Question: ASAK,
I have been through ur website and mashallah its a great work of art. I follow the sunni hanafi maslak.
I am presently studying in USA but my mother father and sisters live in Hyderabad,India.My problem is regarding my elders sisters marraige.Her name is Shabana Rahman. We have been trying for years now but we were unsuccsessfull. My sister is a well educated allah fearing.Please suggest a way for my sister to get a Pious and Allah fearing and well earning Husband soon since my parents are extermely worried.
Thank you for your interest.
If it is possible answer my question only in my email and please try not to post it on the website.
Wassalaam.
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| Answer: Dear Syed Shakeel,Please read "Ya Wahhabo"100 times daily 11 times Darood. |
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From: momina <momina_54@hotmail.com> (maryland, USA) - Nov 21, 2003 |
| Question: assalam-o-alaikum,
I am contacting because a problem I am facing. I am trying to get admission in graduate school and am very nervous about my future. Can you prescribe me a Wazaaif that will help me get into a good college and help me make a better future for myself. May Allah bless you.
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| Answer: Dear Momina,Please Read"Rabbi zidni ilma.11time after every salat 3 times darood.May Allah give you a bright fututer. |
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From: Adil Khan <adilkhan25@hotmail.com> (Hyderabad, India) - Nov 23, 2003 |
| Question: Ya Musabbeb-il-Asbaab - is this one of the ismi-aazam of Allah(SWT) ? what are the benefits and virtues of reciting this attribute of Allah according to your knowledge ? how many times one should recite it and what is the best time to recite it ? Thanking you.
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| Answer: dear Adil khan,This is a Isme-Sifat.it is also ism-e Azam.It has many benefits.It is effctive to solve the problems.If there is any difficulty it is recited 100 times after Fajr or any suitable time with concentration. |
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From: Mehroonisha <j.nisha@rocketmail.com> (Sydney, Australia) - Nov 25, 2003 |
| Question: Assalamualaikum,
I have a question regarding zakat and would appreciate
if you could clarify it for me.
As far as I know Zakat on jewellery gold and silver is
compulsary.
Question 1
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I'll like to explain my question with an example.
I have some gold jewellery. I paid zakat for it in
June 2002. In October 2002 I bought a gold chain.
In June 2003 I have to pay the zakat for my old
jewellery and In October 2003 I have to pay zakat for
my gold chain. Is this how it works or I have to pay
the zakat for all at one time.
Question 2
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If I have gold jewelleries which I don't wear them
everyday only occasionally do I still have to pay
zakat.
Question 3
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Jewellery which I wear everyday is only subject to
zakat. How far is it true.
Question 4
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How is zakat calculated for jewellery?
Question 5
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We only pay zakat on gold & silver above the minimum
limit. What is the minium limit.
Question 6
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If you have gold & silver more then the minimum limit
does the minimum limit applies or you have to pay for
all the gold & sliver?
Please clarify my doubt
Salam
Nisha
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| Answer: Dear Nisha,According to Sharia Gold & silver is based for Zakat.
1.You should pay zakat for all gold,silver & cash amount which you own at the paying time of zakat.2&3.You have to pay zakat you wear it or not but it must be in your property.4.If you have 75grams gold or 520 grams silver It is called Nisab.It is important this nisab you have since one year in your custody.5.Minimum limit is 2.5 persent.6.Yes,you have to pay for all gold & silver.May Allah bless us. |
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From: zaki junaidi <abghad34@yahoo.com> (karachi, pakistan) - Nov 26, 2003 |
| Question: Assalmoalaikum
i belong to a junaidi family according to my father[late] my ancesters came from Baghad but we don't have shijra do u help me in this regard.
one more thing i want to know i met other junaidies but they claiming syyed also and some of them were non syyed please help me to sort out this thing
thanks
JUNAIDI
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| Answer: Dear Zaki,Syedana Junaid Baghdadi is a great saint of Islamic History.He was nephew of Hadrat Sirri siqti(RA). |
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From: zaki junaidi <abghad34@yahoo.com> (karachi, pakistan) - Dec 3, 2003 |
| Question: Hozoor-e-wala
assalamoalaikum
i m very sorry to say you did not reply me against my quiestion on 25/11/2003, doesn't metter, i once again ask is there any web site to know about hazrat junaid baghdadi rehmaullah alleh. I want to know about his ancestors as well as his offspring all over the world,i hope you will never forget me to reply for the sake of allah
wassalam
taalib-e- dua
junaidi
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| Answer: Dear Zaki junaidi,Please visit www.minhaj.org. |
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From: Muslimaah <pakification@hotmail.com> (within England, England) - Dec 5, 2003 |
| Question: Assalamu alaykum respected Imam
May Allah Almighty reward u well 4 all the work u do for the sake of Islam. My question is based on something on this page. It was regarding the subject of Interest and you guided the questioner to Dr Tahir ul Qadri. Now I don’t understand this cuz I’ve read that this scholar is working under the name of Sunni Scholer but he once read prayer behind a Deobandi. Now if today my question 2 u were that r we allowed to pray salaah behind a Deobandi or Wahabbi – being Sunni myself, you would reply that – no you are not allowed. So how can Dr Tahir be a guided scholar when this is what he had done and admitted to praying behind a Imam of different fiqh? I am confused about this situation and need ur assistance. Please reply quick. Second cementation is about the present state. I was searching through the net when I came across photographs of Dr Tahir and Benazir Bhutto. Now if mixing between the two genders is strictly forbidden what is happening here? I don’t understand this theory. First confusion is based on this – why was he with a non-mehrem women especially if she was not in pardah, secondly, why allow for photographs to be taken, ok if u say so then ok that ur allowed to take pictures and photographs if u require for Islamic purposes, but what Islamic purpose was this for? And lastly, where does this leave the ahadith of Hazrath Aisha Sadiqa radhiyAllahualaha that on The Day of Judgement u will be asked to place a soul into the picture. Now I’ve read ur mention before about Hazrath Aisha radhiyAllahu having had dolls in the house, maybe this was before the revalations came, before even the understandings came because to my knowledge there is not major distinction between a picture of a doll and a dol itself. Please correct me if I am wrong and please reply quickly so I am relived of my confusion. Jazakamullahkhair. Wa alaykum asalam
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| Answer: Dear Muslimaah,Holy Prophet(Peace be upon Him)said,"Zun-nul momeneena khaira"Have a good thinking about belivers" So act of a muslim should be saying of Prophet.We believe those they read Shahada,they are Muslim.Reading salah behind a muslim is allowed in Islam.The philosophy of prohibition of picture is people of arab used to worship the Idols.This was revealed in Makkah.Hadith of Aisha is in Madina.May Allah guide us on straight path. |
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From: Zarina <<.....>> (Hyderabad , India) - Dec 5, 2003 |
| Question: Asalamalikum
Sheikh Sahab your site is very good Alhamdulilah many of us are getting benefitted by this.My question is
I have applied for Candaian Immigration all process is finished my and my family passports are in Canadian Embassy for visa stamping since month of July.Ineed the visas by this month as i have to take some important decision.In this regard how can i perform Isthekhara.Can you advie some wazifa reading makes difficulties easy and i get success in this getting landing Papers.Waiting for your reply.
AllahHafiz
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| Answer: Dear Zarina,May Allah bless you & solve yopur all matters specially visa process.Please read the prosedure of Istikhara on our website.Read Darood pak 100 times daily. |
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From: nihara <shamsun@juno.com> (northyork, canada) - Dec 3, 2003 |
| Question: Assalaamu Alaikum
I had written to you before but i never got a reply.
I would really appreciate it if you could kindly help me.
I have two major worries please give me appropriate duas or wazifas with the help of Almighty Allah,
My husband of 30yrs upto now is still philandering about ,i was hoping after he reaches a certain age he will reform but there is no change,he does not take resposibility for the family,he is bent on taking revenge on me at every turn for pulling him up for giving a ride to a married woman daily to some classes that he and she were attending,also many other things that i have caught him doing,He is still in touch with these married women in secret,invites them over to the house when i am not there.
We do not live as a married couple though we live in the same house.I have told him over and over again if this is the life he wants he can enjoy it,but to give me some respect as he insults me in front of my son in law,gives me a hard time for my monthly allowance.I do not work anymore,he decides and does whatever he likes with our house or with things that belong to the both of us without even a word to me.I am subject to anonymous calls.What i cannot understand is he prays 5 times a day,fasts and also goes on thableegh jamat occasionally.He has a bitter hatred towards me and i cannot understand why?I know for a fact those women have a dislike for me as they know that i am angry about what my husband is doing for them.Please brother help me .i hvae benn praying tahajjud and whatever i can for the past 10yrs when it was getting worse daily,his harassment and oppression of me.
The sceond problem .We gave a dowry for our one and only child a house in her name ,the in laws begged us to let them live there for awhile,so against my wishes we told them alright but to leave the apt attached to it vacant ,that too they fought for but even though i refused my husband went against my wishes and let them use it,The house is in my daughters name.It is now 5 yrs since they have occupied it,they have boldly rented the apt without my daughters permission and not given her one cent,the motherin law has her son on her side and they say it is between her son and her what happens to the house.Even when my son in law was without a job we had to help pay his rent,my daughter cannot sell or or get any benefit from that house,i fear they will not leave.
As this is a very delicate situation i pray it will be solved in good faith and harmony.Please help my son in law respect his wifes rights and talk to her discuss matters,he never ever discusses anything with her ,shuts her out completely if anything to do with his family and his mother keeps hounding him for money even though she is not paying any rent.Please give some prayers for my daughter for her problems and for mine too.Hoping to hear from you very soon,inshallah.
Thanking you
Salaams
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| Answer: Dear Nihara,Firstly I suggest your daughter to love her husband & serve him in good intention.secondly she should read "Ya Wadoodo"100 times daily after fagr or Isha,11 times darood. |
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From: Khurram Khan <alikhan_20@hotmail.com> (Scarbrough,Ontario, Canada) - Nov 21, 2003 |
| Question: Dear Maulana,
Assalm-waliekum:
I apologize If I asked anything wrong in this matter of tablighi jamaat. But I am confused about joining which group. My question is. Is it like am I suppose to join the group of faithfuls now or in the future. I am a very open minded person.and I did tell you I am heedless. Just tell me which group are you talking about.
Jazallah, Allahafiz
Khurram Khan
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| Answer: Dear Khan,Please join a group those they love Holy Prophet (Peace be upon Him)Those they arrange Mehfil-e-zikr & Na't.May Allah guide us right path. |
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From: Mohsin Yaqub <mohsin_yaqub@hotmail.com> (Riyadh, Saudi Arabia) - Dec 7, 2003 |
| Question: Dear Mufti Sahib, Salam
Firstly, I would like to congratulate you on running / maintaining this amazing website. Mufti Sahib, it is necessary that I tell you all my story so you can understand correctly.
Mufti Sahib, I am married with two kids. I was working in National Bank of Pakistan. In Oct 2001, Bank announced the Golden Handshake scheme which I availed and since then I am in problems. My Job with the Bank was finished in Feb 2002. Alhamdolila, I got a very job in March. But on 1st April 2002, 6 people came in my house and took everything I have. But I thank to Allah that me and my family were remain safe with the help of Allah. But Mufti Sahib, after that "Dakatee", we were so afraid and we cant get sleep in that house. I sold that house in July and purchased another. Meanwhile I was also terminated from my job in May. When I bought my second house, I also started a shop but it was also a failure and in December 2002 I had no other option but to sell my house to clear my debits and to meet the expenses of my family. I shifted to a rented house. From January to July 2003 I went every where to find a job for me but where ever I go, either they say that you too much experience for us or they say sorry we dont have a job for you. Sir, I am Alhamdolila a graduate have accounts + computer experience. In July this year, I applied for a job in Saudi Arabia a got selection. To pay the agent I sold my last property i.e. a plot in half the price I purchased the plot for a better living of my family. Now I am in Saudi Arabia. I also have to pay my debits. my salary is very low. I try to offer my prayers five times. I always pray to Allah to help me. But I don't know why my problems are increasing day by day. Mufti Sahib, please tell me some wazifaa so that rizk can be increased and I can find Allah's favour for me and for my family. I am working in this office from 8:30 am to 3:00 pm and then from 5:00 pm to 10:00 pm and not getting any overtime or any other benefits other than salary. I hope that you will reply asap. Also please advise me what should I do know ??
May Allah Bless you.
Mohsin
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| Answer: Dear Mohsin,May Allah bless you & all of humans.Life is an exam for belivers,The exam is mentioned in 5 types,fear,hunger,economial problems,life,results.Success for those they keep patience.Holy Quran says,Your Rizq is in the heavens.It must reaches you.It is our duty to struggle for it.Alhamdolillah you faced a difficult situation in your life.Please read "Ya hayyu ya qayyum"300 times after fajr 100 times darood in begining & end. |
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From: M.Akram <fashionimports@hotmail.com> (Colombo, Srilanka) - Dec 4, 2003 |
| Question: ASSALAMU ALAIKUM! I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW THE FOLLOWING (pls spare some precious time)
1. CHILLA
a. WHY DO PEOPLE PERFORM/OBSERVE CHILLA?
b. WHO ARE PERMITTED?
c. WHAT IS THE PROCEDURE?
d. SUITABLE PLACE?
MAY ALLAH ENHANCE YOUR KNOWLEDGE FURTHER FOR SAKE OF RASOOL ALLAH SALLALLAHO ALAI HIWA SALLAM AND FOR THE SAKE DASTAGIR RADHI ALLAH TALA ANHU.
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| Answer: Dear Akram,Those they want to close Allah (SWT)they do chilla,it is a sunnah of Prophets.They get permission from their Sheiks.They sit alone.They dont speak during that,also eat dry fruit. |
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From: kanwal <aks_7862002@yahoo.com> (montreal, canada) - Nov 12, 2003 |
| Question: ItASSLAMOALAIKUM!sir,
umeed he app kher se hogein?well,sir i'm doing my wazifa as u suggested and during this i saw 2 dreams like i do see dreams which does'nt make sense but these 2 touched my heart i don't why? so i wanna ask u what does it mean by this.so my first dream is;
1.it's a very short dream n i don't remember the whole part but the main thing i remember that i'm at my work n all my co-workers are there too and i have bowl of someting white like kheer or rice pudding and i'm eating and everybody is asking me that what r u eating and i said it's not for u it's for me that's all i remember.
2.the second dream i saw today in the morning neraly b/w 7 and 8that i'm in canada and there's a big julsa of i don't of what n i'm tere on the street running against the direction of the juloos and i have some poeple after me which are trying to kill me n i'm running away n all of the sudden someone comes out of the juloos n give me a white pearl bangle to wear it and i thanked him and then i start walking n later soembody comes out of the juloos and give me a poshak (the one which kings use to wear like a velvet gown) and he put it on my shoukders n git lost in the crowd and at that time i woke up in the morning.
so,pls kindly tell me that what does it mean n pls ,praye for me.
ur greatful
kanwal.
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| Answer: Dear Kanwal,Sorry for delay,your first dream.Eating rice is a good & happyness in life.
2.It shows that you will get some money or happiness in the life.May Allah bless you. |
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From: imran qadri <imran_qadree@hotmail.com> (karachi, pakistan) - Dec 6, 2003 |
| Question: Assalam U Alaikum, Huzoor main aap ka naam poch saktha hoon kia aap PEER SAHAB hain? aur mera sawal ye hai kay kia hum kisi non 'MEHRRAM' say internat par chat karsakthey hain dosthi waghaira.WASSALAM
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| Answer: Dear Imran,I am a servant of Hazoor Peer sahib.It is better you avoid to do chat with non mahram. |
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From: sara khan <sara_khan_2002@hotmail.com> (lahore, pakistan) - Dec 6, 2003 |
| Question: Dear sir,
AA
i first of all say tanks to you for the answer of my previous question my new question is
what are dreams? is it ture? have effect on our life? where it stands on our religion
kindy guide
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| Answer: Dear Sara Khan,Holy Prophet (Peace be upon Him) said Prophethood is completed except good news,Companions asked what are good news,He replied good dreams.It is 46 part of blessing of Nabuwat. |
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From: TARIQ JAVED <javedtariq28@hotmail.com> (lahore , pakistan) - Dec 6, 2003 |
| Question: Dear sir,
AA
MY QUESTION IS
WHAT IS THE IMPORTANCE OF SUFIAISUM IN ISLAM
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| Answer: Dear Tariq Javed,Sufiism is the real picture of islam.for more detail please study "Haqeeqat-e-Taswuf" by Prof.Dr Tahir ul Qadri. |
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From: Muhammad Haider Javed Qadri <haiderjavedpk@hotmail.com> (Faisalabad, Pakistan) - Dec 7, 2003 |
| Question: Asslamualikum i m facing some problem. Sir! I want to be a noble but i can't.Shataan did not leave me.Although i read the taooz (auzoobil Allah) (lahola wala kowata)but i cannot PLz pray for me and tell me what i should do Allah Hafiz
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| Answer: Dear M Haider,Please join a good gathering permanently.Dont be alone.Always sit among the good & pious people.May Allah bless you. |
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From: Esha <cherygliter@hotmail.com> (Lahore, Pakistan) - Dec 7, 2003 |
| Question: Salam Brother...I want to know of a wazeefa or a dua to read which will help me gain alot of beauty...i will kindly wait for ure reply...JazakAllah .. May Allah Reward you for this..
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| Answer: Dear Esha,Read Ya Jameel 100 times daily.11 time darood in the begining & end. |
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From: Rabia <sweetrabia@hotmail.com> (London, England..) - Dec 7, 2003 |
| Question: Assalam - o - Liakum. I would like to know of a wazeefa or dua to read that will help to gain hieght and lose weight..JazakAllah.. I am eagerly waiting for your reply.
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| Answer: Dear Rabia,please do excersize to lose weight. |
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From: farah <farah_hm@hotmail.com> (-, -) - Dec 7, 2003 |
| Question: assalam-o-alaikum
respected sir,
we have recently moved into a new house few months ago but after moving,my kids keep on getting sick, so much so that we have to take them to the doctor almost twice in a month.please tell me what to do.i'll be grateful.
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| Answer: Dear Farah,Please arrange a mehfil na't&zikr in new house.please pay some sadqa in the way of Allah. |
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From: johan <johafarera> (vancover, canada) - Dec 8, 2003 |
| Question: Assalamalaikum, its secound time i am writing it again , pls answer the question caz 12 th dec is the last date , before that if u can pls send the reply.
the letter from my sisiter is below:
assalamualaikum
i'm a muslim girl...22 yrs of age and a dental student...writing
from jeddah.
i get islamic emails from u time to time and i know that u hav
dedicated ur life to islam by becoming a scholar trying to guide
people on the right path.
i need ur help to solve a family problem which i'm sure u will be
able to with the aid of ur knowledge...i could hav consulted any
site but usually their authencity is not confirmed...therefore i'm
approaching u for help.
first of all facts abt my family...
my father is an indian...54 yrs old
my mother is a pakistan national(migrated to pak when she was a
teenager)...45 yrs.
i hav 2 younger brothers (we live in pak with mother at present)
...20 and 19 yrs old repectively.
we lived in jeddah with our father until 1999(i was 17 then)...then
went to pak to complete our education as foreign schools in
Saudi Arabia are till 12 standard only. (india).
my mother is a schizophrenic patient...i will tell u its meaning
and maybe u will hav to look for it further for a better
understanding...it is due to a naturally existing defect in the
brain w/c has a hereditary factor, it b/c obvious in adulthood...
it changes their thoughts and behaviour completely, it seems they
hav a dual nature...it handicaps them for life b/c its not curable,
medicines only make them revert back to their normal selves faster
than they do on their own...such a patient is intelligent but
paranoid, thinks everyone including family is scheming against them,
no one cares for them, they are all alone in a horrible world and
cause damage to their lives and those around them without realising
it...they are not sick at all times, but there are times when they
are normal and other times they are abnormal...i think they are more
sensitive and get hurt & disheartened more easily and hav less
tolerance and therefore get sick when they cant stand things anymore.
my maternal grandmother is normal, but one of her sister had the
same disease...in the next generation my mother and her eldest sister
hav the disease...in the next generation my cousin seems to hav the
tendency but i'm not sure...my aunt thinks she has it.
my parents were married in 1980...
my father is a BCOM and also has a computer programer diploma
(though my father now works in an altogether different profession
and earns more than his qualification) & my mother is a BA(in
islamic studies) and is a housewife.
my father was dark, with simple looks while my mother was fair & pretty.
my fahter was strict, short-tempered and harsh...age has now softened
him to some extend...while my mother was a soft kind of a person who
could be easily pressurised by people.
but still generally they had a wonderful life and were happy but the
people around them b/c jealous and specially my father's brother's
& friend's wives delibrately disheartened my mother (as a team)
whenever they could find an opportunity.
i dont know from when did the disease take its affect but my father
says the early years of their life were wonderful...and my mother was
an exceptional wife in almost all aspects (she is a good muslim, cooks
well, keeps the house sparklingly clean, can stitch & do embroidery to
a good standard, managed the children well etc etc...w/c are difficult
to find in a single person).
1. my paternal uncles...2 out of 7(later on 2 more joined them) took 2nd
and 3rd wives on the basis of rediculous reasons (such as 'my wife has
too many wishes to fulfil...when infact she was a normal person who dint
want her husband to practice heterosexuality)...and my paternal
grandmother encouraged them...in fact pushed them to divorce their 1st
wives & kids and left them to beg for their survival...and got girls as young as
17 or 18 as 2nd wives (except my father his father and eldest brother
the rest of the family had a weak 'eman' & belived in magic and celebrated
days w/c are not recommended in islam).
2. she had an autoimmune skin disease (forgot the name...starts with a 'v')
in w/c the body's defence system gradually kills its own pigment producing
skin cells and forms white patches on the coloured skin...she dint come
to pakistan for marrying my father to hide this fact (my father married
a paki since his sister's family had migrated to pak dint want to leave
her alone & my maternal grandparents gave their daughter to a foreigner
who lived in a foreign country (KSA) as there were 2 daughters who had yet
to be married).
3. a while after their marraige my mother's father and youngest brother
died one after another...caused a great mental trauma to my mother.
these 3 reasons affected my mother most...in fact got engraved in her
mind as she was all alone in a mob who dispised her for wat she was (an
exceptional wife and mother)...she started to hav 2 fears in her mind
wat if my father remarried too b/c 2 brother in laws had done so in
front of her as one would change one's shoes...and that wat if her kids
inherited the skin disease her mother in law had...and she felt a great
loss of family as they were far away no one could take her fears away
and specially missed her late father and brother to whom she was
quite close.
and to top it all my father wasnt an easy husband meaning nature wise
but dint deprive us of anything, he is a hardworking, dedicated father
and a good muslim too...i think b/c he felt my mother was too good for
him n therefore got jealous if mother admired some male...n once accused
her of doing a bad deed(adultery).
he joked with my mother about taking another wife w/c my mother took
seriously but dint show.
then later in their married life...my mother started to associate my
father with other girls and women...at first in her mind and then loudly
...and dint want anything to do with the people who delibrately made
her life a hell.
so gradually my father stopped having ties with his brothers and friends
...we becames isolated at quite a young age (i was 10 then)...he took us
to muslim countries in the middle east relax my mother and ease her
worries,he dint know mother was sick and she started to associate him
with girls in those arab countries and started crying frequently and going where
ever she felt like instead of sight seeing with us....we went india &
pak too for vacations sometimes.
then gradually my mother started to hav auditory hallucinations...she
heard people she new giving her warnings...she b/c agressive...the
condition b/c more worse...my parents started to fight and argue...
and to control and stop my mother from behaving the way she was
my father beat her quite voilently sometimes when he couldnt stand her
anymore...she talked on and on continuously making no sense (b/c she kept
on jumping from one topic to another) and if she
did make sense it was all wrong and rubish...she talked about how people
we knew earlier mistreated her even when we had stopped meeting them...
how baba was beating her and having good times behind her back with some
girl or the other she kept changing them with time...sometimes it was
my father's boss's wife, or some neighbour's daughter or her cousin sister
or some maid...it could be anyone she thought it was...she even had visual
hallucinations as she saw baba with the current new wife in our car
in front of the balcony passing by...she said her kids were also among
the opressors and were on the bad peoples side(includingfather)...
she talked about all bad things happening to her w /c werent true...she
sometimes even used vulgar language...she kept on repeating old incidents
in a bad light whether they were bad or good...and sometiimes she started
to cry and when asked for a reason she would say she missed her late brother
...all this happened at times when my mother b/c sick(the period varied
from 3 to 6 months...at other times(w/c varied from 2 to 4 wks) she b/c
a perfectly normal person and even laughed at her rediculousness
not necessarily always sometimes she even refused she ever did such a thing
or said watever she said or did was justified.
my parents lived in my uncles house for 1 yr and a half in jeddah and
also my mother lived with her sister in law b/f coming to jeddah
permanently and also met them b/f we cut off ties with them...but she
repeated their bad behaviour with her w/c was for a short time and were
old incidents...all the time when she got sick.
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